You are too precious to live like trash.  You are a masterpiece of the highest creator of the universe.  What do your thoughts look like?

It’s just my family, I don’t need to worry about looking good for them.

Or

If anyone deserves my best it’s my family.  They love me the most and deserve honor and respect.  Just because they love me doesn’t mean I let myself go.

 

I’m home alone today and don’t have anyone to impress.  I’ll just wear these tattered old sweats.

Or

I want to look good for me.  I want to look in the mirror and get a big old smile on my face and say, “Woman you’re hot!”  The only clothes I own are ones I feel attractive in.  My body is my temple.

 

My house is messy.  I haven’t updated the décor in ten years.  I’ve got junk coming out of the closet.  The doors squeak.  I don’t have the energy to deal with it though.  It doesn’t bother me much anyway.

Or

I take care of my possessions.  I circulate them and I only bring into my home what is beautiful and pleasing to me.  Beauty can be created in a mansion or a shack.

 

Shoot! I don’t need to wash my car that much. It’s just going to get dirty again.

Or

I am so fortunate to have a car. My body, all my possessions, and even my loved ones are on loan to me from the Divine. I show my respect for these gifts.

 

ARRRGGGG!!! There’s never enough time to get everything done.  I have to rush everywhere, flinging my body all over the place, exacerbating all my aches and pains!

Or

The Divine never rushes and neither do people in their power. I get there when I get there, and I move elegantly along the way. 

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I’m starving! I grab and gulp my food when I manage to find a moment to cram it in.

 Or

I savor my food and mind my manners.  God made me human, not a slovenly pig.

 

I have no control over my thoughts!! I worry. I analyze. I overthink everything. I judge. I criticize.

Or

I practice being disciplined with my thoughts.  I have faith in the Divine, and I wish for prosperity for myself and everyone else.

 

Most people have a combination of many of these thoughts, but remember, a rose blooms even when no one is watching.  The universe is always observing and matching your frequency.  There are no secrets in this life.

Do you show love, honor, and respect in everything you do?

 

Heather Hans, LCSW, MSW, MBA, CPIC, is a Visionary, Healer & Teacher, and the author of The Heart of Self-Love: How to Radiate with ConfidenceIt is Heather's firm belief that loving oneself is necessary to have fulfilling relationships and a successful life.