Have you been disappointed, betrayed, and disillusioned by other people?
Do you find that people generally fall into the S category?
Where is your faith meter in other people, on this scale? People suck, to I’m flooded with love and generosity from people.
I’m here to let you know that loving, generous, loyal people do exist and not only can you have them in your life, but it is your birthright. If being surrounded by loving, generous, loyal people is not your experience, you might believe that this world is a cold dark place, and subconsciously put yourself in situations that confirm your belief. It’s like people who grew up having been fed low-quality junk food may struggle eat to justify eating organic food, even though it’s their birthright.
Everyone needs to retrain themselves in some way or another. If your deficiency spot has been relationships, let me assure you, YOU CAN DO IT! The universe wants what’s best for you, but you also need to believe what’s best for you. Whatever you believe is real. What’s real and true differs depending upon whose eyes you’re looking through. The Divine delivers to you what your thoughts and actions order. IF you want loving and devoted people in your life, you must practice being impeccable with your thoughts and actions. Conflict is caused by saying you want one thing and doing another. Faith in the Divine = Faith in others.
You create your life experience based on your level of consciousness. The good news is we can all change our level of consciousness. If you were born into disappointers you are meant to experience uplifters. The creator makes opposites for you to experience and appreciate the other. You wouldn’t appreciate happiness with sadness, light without dark, true love without unhappy past relationships. Now I’d like you to close your eyes and visualize yourself being surrounded by loving, loyal, warm-hearted people. Imagine what it feels like in your body to have those people in your closest inner circle love you, want the best for you, and be committed to you. Now, open your eyes and let me tell you one more time, you can do it, yes you can, you can find a good woman or man!
How do I know it? Because I've done it myself.
Heather Hans, LCSW, MSW, MBA, CPIC, is a Visionary, Healer & Teacher, and the author of The Heart of Self-Love: How to Radiate with Confidence. It is Heather's firm belief that loving oneself is necessary to have fulfilling relationships and a successful life.